Funny how the Lord works, when placing people in your life. Love is a word and or feeling, in some cases, that is very confusing. Your idea of love is based off the way you grew up. My mom never got alone with my father and I could accept that because his actions were always a disgrace to our family. She showed me that Divorce is not the answer to every marriage gone wrong. She is still with him because of us, not because she wants to be. I’ve accepted that. She taught me how to choose wisely, and taught me the signs of a bad relationship. Being picky with the guys or girls you associate with will make your choice to love more relaxing. There isn’t a “Perfect Mate” out there in the world. Trials and tribulations will live an eternity just as the grace of God because the devil is lurking in every corner like a serpent in the grass.
If being picky is how you were raised then there wouldn’t be any problems. The falling in love with the first girl/ guy that try to talk to you or say I Love You just is absurd. Being stubborn is not all bad because that way no one could pressure you to do anything you don’t want to. You are your own person. Get to know a person before you proceed to have sexual intercourse with them. This is away to prevent broken hearts and teenage pregnancy. Some females don’t have father figures in their lives that would guide them through Boys 101. They would just settle for the first guy just as their mother did. When a mother brings home a different guy every week to her kids her baby girls, especially, take note because that is all she know. The baby boys would want to have a lot of women when he gets older. So just love the only way you know how ,and remember when you have kids set a good example for them.
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